People criticise the way we run our household. How do we stay confident?

Outsiders' opinions should not run your household, as long as what you do is in line with the Shariah. Every family has circumstances that outsiders do not fully understand. Listen to good advice, but filter out what is mere criticism or interference. Talk with your spouse so that the two of you face people's comments with one heart. Avoid changing important decisions just because of social pressure. Be confident in choices made together and on the basis of religion. Peace comes from Allah's pleasure, not from people's applause. See rights of husband and wife.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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