A family member is spreading our household matters on social media. What should we do?

Family matters are not material for social media, and the member spreading them should be corrected kindly. Ask privately and politely that family photos or stories not be shared without permission. Explain the effect on privacy and dignity to them without accusing. If necessary, limit what you share with members who like to spread things. Set the privacy settings on your own accounts. Avoid retaliating by exposing their matters in turn. If it continues and causes harm, discuss it with a respected family member. Family privacy is a shared trust. See family & the digital world.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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