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After our parents passed away, we siblings have drifted apart. How can we repair this?

Parents are often the thread that holds siblings together, and once they are gone, that bond has to be looked after consciously. Do not let disputes over property or old wounds sever the ties between you. Take the first step towards reconciliation even if you feel you are not the one at fault; the one who starts making peace is the nobler. Continue family traditions such as gathering on particular days or visiting the graves together. Settle estate matters transparently and fairly, and get help from the proper authorities if needed, without cutting ties. Pray for one another. Keeping family ties is ongoing charity for your late parents. See communication & emotions.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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