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After divorce, I have to manage my own finances for the first time. Where should I start?

Start with the real picture: how much money comes in, how much goes out, and what debts are now in your name. List all income, including salary, child maintenance and assistance, then all fixed expenses such as rent, utilities, food and schooling. Put basic needs first and postpone spending that can wait. Open a small savings account for emergencies, even if the amount each month is small. If debt is pressing, AKPK can help restructure repayments. Also check your eligibility for zakat or welfare assistance without feeling ashamed. Learn slowly; these skills will strengthen you for the long term. See family finances.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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