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I sometimes feel disappointed because my husband earns little. How do I manage this feeling?

A husband's worth lies in his religion, character and effort, not in the size of his salary. Provision is in Allah's hands, and a husband who works honestly has fulfilled his responsibility even if his income is modest. Appreciate his efforts openly, because a man who is appreciated is more motivated to strive, while one who is belittled loses confidence. If there is room to improve the income, discuss it as a team, not as a reproach. You can also contribute in a halal way if you are able and agree to. Pray for blessed provision for the family. Remember, peace at home is not bought with a big salary. See communication & emotions.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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