Does having qana'ah mean I cannot aspire to a better life?

Qana'ah is contentment of the heart with what you have, not laziness about improving your situation. Islam encourages seeking halal provision and planning for the future; what is condemned is greed and a restlessness that is never satisfied. You can strive hard while still being content with what Allah has given you today. Set reasonable financial goals and pursue them calmly, not out of jealousy of others. Striving is worship; the outcome is left to Allah. That way, you move forward without losing your peace. See family finances.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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