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My family is threatening to hurt me if I do not return to my old religion. What should I do?

Your safety comes first: a threat to hurt you is a danger that must be dealt with immediately, not merely endured with patience. If you are in danger now, call the police on 999 immediately. Also contact Talian Kasih 15999 for advice and support at any time. Tell someone you trust and, if necessary, find a safe place to stay for a while. Steadfast faith does not mean letting yourself be harmed; Islam protects your life. Get help from a convert (mualaf) support organisation or the state Islamic religious affairs office, which are used to handling situations like this. You are not alone. See interfaith.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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