🧒 Raising children (tarbiyah) · #99

How do I nurture my child's love for the Quran without forcing him until he is fed up?

Love for the Quran grows from pleasant experiences, not exhausting compulsion. Set short, regular sessions, perhaps ten minutes a day, so that it is not a burden. Read with him and listen to his recitation with patience and praise, not criticism that crushes his spirit. Explain the simple meaning of the verses read so that he sees the Quran speaks about his life. Celebrate every new surah or page he masters. Avoid comparing his speed with other children. Make the atmosphere of Quran reading at home calm and respected. A child who is happy with the Quran will return to it all his life. See educating the family.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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