As grandparents, how can we play a part in our grandchildren's lives without interfering in how our children raise them?

Grandparents are most precious as a source of love, stories and wisdom, not as people who override the parents in raising children. Respect the way your child is bringing up your grandchildren, and offer your views as suggestions in private, not as corrections in front of the grandchildren. Avoid spoiling them excessively or overruling the rules the parents have set, because that confuses the children and creates tension. Fill your role by telling inspiring stories, teaching short prayers, and pouring out calm love. Be a shelter that supports your child's family, not a source of rivalry. The wise love of grandparents is remembered for a lifetime. See in-laws.