May I join in celebrating a non-Muslim relative's success, such as graduating or a promotion?

Sharing the joy of a non-Muslim relative's worldly success, such as graduating or a promotion, is part of doing good. Congratulate them, give a permissible gift, or attend their celebration as long as it is not a religious ceremony and is free of sinful activity. This strengthens the relationship and shows that Islam values the good in others. Distinguish between celebrating a personal achievement and joining a religious ritual; the first is permitted, the second is not. If the gathering is mixed with forbidden things, attend briefly or congratulate them separately. Shared joy builds bridges between hearts. See interfaith.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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