🕊️ Conflict & resolution · #177

I am not ready to leave yet, but I want to be safer in a controlling relationship. What can I do?

You can start planning for your safety quietly even before making any big decision. Keep important documents, a little money and one phone number you can call in a safe place, or with someone you trust. Identify a neighbour or relative you can go to immediately if needed. If the situation becomes dangerous, call the police on 999; to plan with a counsellor, contact Talian Kasih 15999. Memorise a few important numbers in case your phone is taken. The Department of Social Welfare (JKM) can help with shelter when you are ready. Your safety and your children's comes first. See domestic violence.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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