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My wife gave up her career for the family. How can I show her appreciation?

Acknowledge your wife's sacrifice openly, because giving up a career for the family is a great contribution that often goes unseen. Thank her clearly and often, rather than treating it as mere duty. Make sure she does not feel she has lost her identity or is confined; support her interests, learning or social activities. Provide maintenance (nafkah) with an open heart, without reminding her of it. Involve her in financial decisions so she feels respected. Take time to ask about her personal dreams that may have been put on hold. A sacrifice that is appreciated becomes a source of happiness, not regret. See rights of husband and wife.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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