🏡 Rights & responsibilities · #200

How can I support my spouse in achieving a religious goal, such as memorising the Qur'an or seeking knowledge?

Support their religious goal as you would want to be supported, because it brings blessing to the whole family. If your spouse wants to memorise the Qur'an, seek knowledge or perform hajj, help with time, space and encouragement. Lighten their household duties so they have room for their practice. Join in now and then so it becomes a shared goal, not separate paths. Pray for their success and celebrate every step of progress. Avoid grumbling that it takes up their time, as long as the family's rights are still kept. Supporting your spouse's good deeds is an investment for the Hereafter. See rights of husband and wife.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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