My family wants to match me with a distant cousin across the border whom I have never met. How should I respond?

You have the right to get to know the suitor and decide willingly; marriage should not be forced. Appreciate your family's good intention of strengthening ties, but ask for the chance to get acquainted first. Arrange a meeting with a mahram or family present, either in person or by video call. Ask about his religion, character, work and which country he wants to settle in. Pray istikharah and consult people you trust. If your heart is still not at peace, tell your parents politely, for example: ‘I respect the family's choice, but I am not yet sure.’ See forced marriage.