🧒 Raising children (tarbiyah) · #129

How do I teach my teenage son to lower his gaze and guard his dignity when mixing with others?

Teach him that lowering the gaze is a sign of strength and dignity, not a torturous restriction. Explain the reasons behind these manners respectfully, because teenagers accept them more easily when they understand the purpose. Be the example first: guard your own gaze and speech, because children copy actions, not just words. Guide him to use his phone with good manners and stay away from harmful material. Praise him each time he shows maturity. Avoid long lectures; one short, sincere reminder is more effective. Read raising the family for more ideas.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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