🧒 Raising children (tarbiyah) · #137
My teenager feels awkward being a practising Muslim among friends who do not pray. How do I strengthen him?
Confidence in one's faith grows when a child understands the reasons behind practices, not just follows rules. Teenagers are strongly affected by their peers, so feeling awkward is normal and not a sign of weak faith. Take time to listen to the pressure he faces without belittling it, then help him see his practice as a choice to be proud of, not a burden. Find a supportive environment: Muslim friends, a mosque youth club, or programmes that make Islam alive and enjoyable. Tell stories of young believers so that he knows he is not alone. Avoid comparing him with others, because that adds to his sense of inferiority. A strong identity is built in a warm home, not through lectures. Read more in guide to raising the family.