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🏡 Rights & responsibilities · #306

How can we create screen-free family time that is actually kept every day?

Screen-free time works when it is regular, includes everyone including the parents, and is filled with something enjoyable. Choose a reasonable time such as dinner, and set up a special place where everyone puts their phones. The rules must apply equally; children find it hard to accept if parents are exempt. Fill the time with conversation, games, reading or worship together so it is looked forward to, not felt as a punishment. Start with a short period and lengthen it once it becomes a habit. Do not give up if some days slip; pick it up again the next day. Consistency builds a family culture of being more present with each other. See family digital life.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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