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How can a girl be prepared for her first period, especially if her father is raising her alone?

Explain it before it happens — usually somewhere between nine and twelve years old — in calm, practical language and without embarrassment.
ʿAisha r.a. praised the women of the Ansar because shyness did not stop them from asking about religion, including menstruation (Sahih Muslim, Kitab al-Haid). Things to explain: menstruation is something Allah has decreed for women and is not dirty in a shameful sense; how to wear and change sanitary pads; the signs that a period has started and ended; that prayer and fasting are not performed during menstruation and missed fasts must be made up; and how to take the obligatory bath. Prepare an "emergency kit" for her school bag. A single father can ask an aunt, grandmother or trusted female teacher to help, while still showing his daughter she can ask him. See Fiqh of menstruation and Single parents.

Sources

Sahih Muslim, Kitab al-HaidSahih al-Bukhari 294Surah al-Baqarah 2:222
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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