My mother-in-law often criticises my cooking and the way I run the house. How do I deal with it?

Listen to your in-law's criticism calmly, take what is useful, and let go of what is merely a difference in approach. Different generations do run a home differently, and often the intention is to help, not to put you down. Thank her for her guidance, then carry on in your own way in matters that are yours to manage. Avoid arguing in the kitchen or in front of others. If the criticism becomes frequent and hurtful, ask your husband to convey your feelings to his mother respectfully. Guard your heart against resentment by remembering her other kindnesses. Calm self-confidence defuses the atmosphere better than a heated defence. See in-laws.