🧭 Preparation & choosing a spouse · #93

What is good to do on the night before the akad nikah?

Use that night to calm your heart, not to finish last-minute work until the early hours. Hand technical matters over to family members you trust. Take time to pray, make dua in your own words for a blessed marriage, and ask your parents' forgiveness. Many brides and grooms find a short conversation with their mother or father that night very meaningful. Avoid scrolling social media or reading people's comments about your wedding. Eat moderately and sleep early so your face and mind are fresh at the akad. Tomorrow, you want to be fully present at that most important moment. See doubts before the wedding.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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