My husband has started threatening me and being rough with me when I claim my rights as a second wife. What should I do?

Your safety comes before every other consideration; claiming your rights is never a reason to be abused or threatened. If you are in danger, call the police on 999 immediately. For advice and support, contact Talian Kasih 15999, who can help you plan safe steps. Violence, whether hitting, threats or coercive control, is a wrong that is not permitted in Islam, and not a sign that your obedience is lacking. Keep evidence and tell someone you trust. Your rights to maintenance (nafkah) and good treatment can be claimed through the Syariah Court without having to endure danger at home. Do not let anyone tell you to ‘be patient’ in a situation that threatens your safety. See domestic violence.