Suami saya pukul saya. Apa yang patut saya buat?

Keselamatan anda didahulukan — keganasan rumah tangga adalah haram dan satu jenayah, dan anda berhak mendapat perlindungan segera. Jika dalam bahaya, hubungi polis 999 atau pergi ke balai polis terdekat. Untuk sokongan 24 jam, hubungi Talian Kasih 15999 (atau WhatsApp 019-261 5999). Dapatkan rawatan di jabatan kecemasan hospital kerajaan — One Stop Crisis Centre (OSCC) membantu mangsa dan merekod kecederaan. Di bawah Akta Keganasan Rumah Tangga 1994 , anda boleh memohon perintah perlindungan. Islam tidak pernah mewajibkan isteri bersabar dengan penderaan: Nabi ﷺ melarang kemudaratan dan baginda sendiri tidak pernah memukul isteri. Meninggalkan rumah demi keselamatan bukan nusyuz. Selepas selamat, Mahkamah Syariah boleh membantu dari sudut fasakh, nafkah dan hak penjagaan anak. Lihat Kaunseling dan Nusyuz & konflik .

Q&A › Conflict & resolution

🕊️ Conflict & resolution · #3

My husband hits me. What should I do?

Your safety comes first — domestic violence is haram and a crime, and you are entitled to immediate protection.
If you are in danger, call the police on 999 or go to the nearest police station. For 24-hour support, call Talian Kasih 15999 (or WhatsApp 019-261 5999). Get treatment at the emergency department of a government hospital — One Stop Crisis Centre (OSCC) helps victims and records injuries. Under the Domestic Violence Act 1994, you can apply for a protection order. Islam has never required a wife to endure abuse patiently: the Prophet ﷺ forbade causing harm, and he himself never struck a wife. Leaving the home for your safety is not nushuz (marital defiance). Once you are safe, the Syariah Court can help with judicial dissolution (fasakh), maintenance (nafkah) and child custody. See Counselling and Nushuz & conflict.

Sources

Domestic Violence Act 1994 (Act 521)Sahih Muslim, Kitab al-Fadha'ilnarrated by Ibn Majah (hasan) — la darar wa la dirarSurah al-Baqarah 2:231

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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