🤝 Existing wife & prospective wife · #139

Is it possible for me to be truly happy again after my husband takes another wife, or am I just fooling myself?

Yes, happiness again is possible; it is not fooling yourself, but building a meaningful life even though circumstances have changed. This happiness may look different from before, but it can be stronger because it rests on Allah and on yourself, not only on a husband. Many women find new strength, faith and peace after this trial. Start by rebuilding the things within your control: worship, knowledge, your relationship with your children, and something that gives you purpose. Cherish the small good moments without feeling guilty for being happy. Give it time, and do not measure today by yesterday's wound. Happiness built slowly lasts longer. See mental health.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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