💰 Family finances · #78

Should husband and wife discuss things first before making a big purchase?

Yes, big purchases should be decided together because they affect the whole family, not just one person. Set an agreed amount as a limit: any spending above it is discussed first. This protects trust and avoids hurtful surprises. For small daily purchases, give each other room so no one feels watched. When discussing, weigh the need, affordability and the effect on debt. If you disagree, postpone rather than force it; hasty money decisions are often regretted. Openness like this strengthens rather than restricts. See communication & emotions.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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