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My stepchild makes up untrue stories about me to his or her father. What should I do?

Do not panic or respond in anger; handle this calmly together with your husband as a team. Ask your husband to hear both sides and look into it before believing any story. Allah teaches: “if there comes to you a wicked person with news, then verify it” (Surah al-Hujurat 49:6). Understand that children sometimes make up stories out of jealousy, fear of losing their father, or a wish for attention. Keep being kind and consistent so the accusations collapse on their own. Avoid calling the child a liar in front of others or retaliating with counter-stories. If the situation drags on, get help from a family counsellor. See communication & emotions.

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Surah al-Hujurat 49:6

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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