🌍 Children, inheritance & global · #76

Every handover of our child to my ex-spouse turns into a tense scene. How can we calm it down?

Handovers should be short and calm, because a child reads your face and tone as a sign of whether he is safe. Agree on a neutral place and time, and keep the conversation to matters about the child only. Save money issues or disputes for another channel, not in front of the child at that moment. If feelings are still running high, consider handing over in a public place or through a trusted third party. Say goodbye to your child with a smile so he feels allowed to enjoy his time with the other parent. Consistency makes these moments easier over time. See custody (hadhanah) & lineage.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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