My husband's friends are encouraging him to look for a second wife. How should I deal with this?

Focus on strengthening your relationship with your husband, not on fighting his friends. Friends' influence is strong, so make home the most pleasant place, so that your husband is not easily swayed. Avoid openly speaking badly of his friends, because that can make him defend them. Share your feelings with your husband calmly and ask him to be mindful of your heart. Encourage him to spend time with friends who support a healthy marriage. If your husband truly intends it, discuss the rights and conditions maturely, not in anger. Pray that he is protected from bad influence. See rights of husband and wife.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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