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My spouse has just recovered from addiction. How do I support them so they do not relapse?

Recovery does not end on the day they stop; calm and consistent support after that is very important. Help them stay away from old triggers such as certain friends or places, and fill their free time with healthy, useful routines. Keep attending follow-up sessions or support groups if advised. Avoid raking up the past as a weapon during quarrels. Celebrate every achievement, however small, and rebuild trust gradually. Keep a balance between giving support and looking after yourself. Keep praying for their steadfastness. See counselling.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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