Most of our fights start from words that slip out. How do we guard our tongues?

An uncontrolled tongue is the most frequent cause of wounds in a marriage, and guarding it is an act of worship. The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak good or remain silent” (Sahih al-Bukhari 6018). Before saying something sharp, pause for a moment and ask whether it will mend or damage. Staying silent when angry is not weakness; it is space to choose better words. If you slip, correct it quickly and apologise. Practise the habit of replacing grumbling with polite requests. A home where tongues are guarded rarely holds grudges. See communication & emotions.

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Sahih al-Bukhari 6018

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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