Work forces us to live apart in our first year. How do we look after our relationship?

Distance makes things harder, but the relationship can still be cared for through frequent communication, clear intentions and a plan to be together. Set regular times to connect so that both of you feel connected, not just checking on practical matters. Share small daily things, not only big news, because that is what keeps the sense of closeness. Guard trust by being transparent about where you are and who you are with. Plan regular visits and a goal for ending this period apart. Protect yourself from temptation and from company that could damage that trust. Pray for each other every day. Temporary distance can make you stronger if you manage it together. See communication & emotions.