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How can we respect each other's careers as contributions to the family?

Each spouse's career, whether paid or at home, is a contribution to the family that deserves to be appreciated and supported. Show interest in your spouse's working day, not just ask about the salary. Celebrate their small successes and be with them in hard moments. The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever does not thank people has not thanked Allah” (Sunan Abu Dawud 4811), so make a habit of expressing appreciation. Avoid belittling your spouse's work or comparing it with others'. Support their goals as you would want to be supported. A marriage in which each respects the other's efforts is stronger in facing work pressure. See rights of husband and wife.

Sources

Sunan Abu Dawud 4811 (sahih)
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