🏡 Rights & responsibilities · #185

How can we revive romance in our marriage within the limits of the Shariah?

Romance in Islam is very broad as long as it is between husband and wife and does not cross the limits, so there is no reason to be shy about nurturing it. Start with simple things: sweet words, small gifts, meals for two, and making time free of interruptions. Revive the memories of special places or moments in your marriage. Take care of your appearance and cleanliness for each other. Avoid making every conversation only about problems or the children. Intimacy grows out of a warm emotional connection throughout the day, not only in the bedroom. Set aside one special night for the two of you this week. See everyday adab.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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