🕊️ Conflict & resolution · #246

The family's money is gone because of my spouse's addiction. How do we rebuild our finances?

Start by securing basic needs and getting a clear picture of the debts you have. List income, spending and debts honestly together, if your spouse is already committed to recovery. Get debt-management help such as AKPK to restructure payments without getting trapped again. Separate the family's essential funds from money at risk of being misused. Set small goals and celebrate each step forward so you do not lose heart. Avoid new interest-bearing loans to cover old ones. Financial recovery and recovery from addiction go hand in hand. See family finances.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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