🤝 Existing wife & prospective wife · #128

My sadness is getting so bad that I feel I don't want to live any more. What should I do?

This feeling is a sign that you urgently need help, and your life is precious to Allah and to your family. Do not carry this alone, not even for a moment. If you feel in danger or are thinking of harming yourself, call the police on 999 immediately. Also contact Talian Kasih 15999 for support and advice, at any time. Tell someone you trust now, and do not leave yourself alone. This condition can be treated, and even the darkest feelings will change with the right help. See a doctor or a professional counsellor as soon as possible. You deserve to be helped, and asking for help is a sign of strength. See mental health.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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