When should we see a doctor about intimacy problems, rather than just being patient?

Patience is good for temporary matters, but problems that persist, cause pain or strain the relationship should be taken to a doctor. See a doctor when there is pain, a significant change in health, ongoing difficulty, or when it starts to affect harmony at home. Seeking medical help is nothing to be ashamed of; it is part of caring for the trust of your body and your marriage. Choose a doctor you are comfortable with, and a wife may ask for a female doctor if that puts her at ease. Discuss it with your spouse first so the step is taken together. Health problems treated early are easier to resolve. See health & fertility.