While waiting for the polygyny hearing date, the atmosphere at home is very tense. How do we get through it?

Agree on a few house rules for this waiting period, so that the tension does not spill over onto the children. For example: no discussion of the case in front of the children, no sarcastic remarks at the dinner table, and one set time a week to talk about it. The husband must continue maintenance and routines as usual; this period is early proof of his fairness. The wife, for her part, has the right to keep emotional distance if needed, as long as she does not cut off communication completely. If conversations always end in quarrels, ask for help from a sulh officer or family counsellor. Make sure the children know they are still cared for and loved. See communication and emotions.