🧭 Preparation & choosing a spouse · #134
We plan to have children right after marrying. What should we discuss with a doctor early?
See a doctor for a pre-pregnancy check a few months before marrying or before planning a pregnancy. This check is different from the screening required before marriage; it focuses on the health of the future mother and baby. Things commonly discussed include supplements such as folic acid, immunisation status, existing conditions such as diabetes or thyroid problems, and medicines being taken. The future husband should attend too, because his lifestyle also has an effect, for example a smoking habit. Write down your questions before the appointment so you do not forget. This is not a sign of weak trust in Allah, because making the effort to protect your offspring is part of the trust given to you. See fertility.