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I did not give permission, but my husband still wants to marry. What are my options?

Under the Shariah a husband may marry without your permission, but in Malaysia the court will assess it, and you still have options. First, put forward your views and evidence in court when his application is heard. Second, try sulh (mediation) or counselling to find a middle way. Third, if you cannot continue, you may apply for khulʿ, or for fasakh if there is harm or unfairness. Fourth, make sure your financial rights — maintenance, jointly acquired matrimonial property — are recorded. Your feelings are natural; take time and seek support from people you trust before making big decisions.

Sources

Act 303, s.23Surah an-Nisa' 4:128Sahih al-Bukhari 5273
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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