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I raised a stepchild for years. After the divorce, can I keep in touch with him?

Yes, and a loving bond built over a long time deserves to be kept, as long as you respect the child's biological mother or father. For a man, a stepdaughter remains mahram forever if he consummated the marriage with her mother. For a woman, a stepson remains mahram because she was once his father's wife. Emotionally, the child may feel a double loss, so do not disappear without a word. Discuss with the biological parent a suitable way to stay in touch, such as birthday messages or occasional meetings. Do not use the stepchild as a source of information about your ex-spouse. Read more on the mahram page.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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