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🧭 Preparation & choosing a spouse · #46

Is there a special supplication for finding a good spouse?

No single specific supplication is required, but the Qur'anic supplications asking for spouses and offspring who are a comfort to the eyes are suitable to practise.
Among them: "Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a'yun waj'alna lil-muttaqina imama" (al-Furqan 25:74), and the supplication of the Prophet Musa a.s. "Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqir" (al-Qasas 28:24). Supplicate in your own language, mentioning the qualities you hope for in a spouse, at times when prayers are answered, such as in prostration and in the last third of the night. Combine supplication with effort, and with the istikharah prayer once there is a candidate. Avoid practices or amulets that have no basis in the Shariah.

Sources

Surah al-Furqan 25:74Surah al-Qasas 28:24Surah al-Baqarah 2:186
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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