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🧒 Raising children (tarbiyah) · #203

At what age should a child be given his own smartphone?

A child's readiness matters more than his age, so assess his maturity and real need before giving him a smartphone. Ask yourself: does he need it for safety, or just because his friends have one? Does he show responsibility in looking after things and following rules? If he is not yet ready, a basic phone for calling you is enough for now. When you do give one, start with clear rules: usage times, app limits, and the phone charged outside the bedroom at night. Begin with tighter controls and loosen them when he shows he can be trusted. Explain these rules as a sign of love, not mere control. See the family's digital life.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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