🕊️ Conflict & resolution · #235

I suspect my child is misusing drugs. What is the right first step?

Acting early, calmly and with the right information gives your child the best chance to recover. Avoid hasty accusations; gather your observations first and choose a calm moment to talk honestly. Listen without shouting, because a frightened child will hide more. Get professional guidance: the National Anti-Drugs Agency (AADK) provides advice and rehabilitation services without necessarily exposing your child to punishment. Make sure home is a place where your child feels safe to be honest. Keep up your love and supervision without making your child feel cast out. See counselling.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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