🏡 Rights & responsibilities · #265

How can a husband help look after his pregnant wife's nutrition and health?

Looking after a pregnant wife's nutrition is a real way for a husband to love two lives at once. A father's obligation includes “to feed and clothe the mothers in a proper manner” (Surah al-Baqarah 2:233), and this begins while the baby is still in the womb. Help prepare nutritious food, go with her to check-ups, and remind her to drink water and rest enough without nagging. Keep cigarette smoke away from your wife and your home, because it harms mother and baby. Follow the doctor's advice on nutrition and recommended supplements. Ask what she needs rather than assuming. Attention like this lightens the burden of pregnancy. See responsibilities of husband and wife.

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Surah al-Baqarah 2:233

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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