How can we plan and save to perform hajj together one day?

Make hajj a planned family goal, not a dream postponed without any steps. Start with a sincere intention, then open a special hajj savings fund and put in a fixed amount every month according to your means. Register with the relevant body early so that your turn is available when the time comes. Avoid taking on debt to hasten it, because hajj is only obligatory when you are truly able. While waiting, educate yourselves in the rites (manasik) and increase your good deeds so your hearts are prepared too, not just your money. Make it a regular conversation between the two of you so the enthusiasm stays alive. For registration and its requirements, consult the body that manages hajj. See family finances.