🤝 Existing wife & prospective wife · #33

I have a chronic illness and my husband wants to marry again. Are my rights reduced?

No — a sick wife's rights remain in full, and the husband must continue to care for her well. Illness is a trial, not a fault. A husband may marry again for permitted reasons, but he must still provide maintenance, the treatment he can afford, her turn and compassionate treatment. The court also assesses whether the new marriage will harm the existing wife. If you are worried, discuss a care plan in writing. The Prophet ﷺ said that the most complete of the believers in faith is the best of them in character, and the best of you are those who are best to their wives. See each wife's rights.

Sources

Sunan at-Tirmidhi 1162 (hasan sahih)Surah an-Nisa' 4:19Act 303, s.23

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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