🤝 Existing wife & prospective wife · #34

Is there a supplication or practice to calm the heart when one's husband takes another wife?

There is no specific supplication for when one's husband takes another wife, but there are many authentic supplications and practices to calm the heart. Allah says that in the remembrance of Allah hearts find rest. Keep to praying on time, dhikr, reading the Qur'an and the supplication at times of calamity: 'Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un, Allahumma'jurni fi musibati wa akhlif li khairan minha.' Umm Salamah r.a. once described herself as a woman of strong jealousy when the Prophet ﷺ proposed to her, and he prayed that Allah would remove it. Besides supplication, take practical steps: a healthy routine, the support of friends and counselling.

Sources

Surah ar-Ra'd 13:28narrated by MuslimSurah al-Baqarah 2:153

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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