🏛️ Polygyny: the law · #86

My husband is forcing me to agree to his polygyny and threatening me if I refuse. What should I do?

Consent under threat is not consent, and your safety comes before any court matter. If you are in danger, call the police on 999 immediately. For advice and support, contact Talian Kasih 15999. Keep evidence such as messages, recordings or medical reports somewhere your husband cannot reach, and tell someone you trust. Do not sign anything out of fear. At the hearing, you have the right to tell the judge that you were pressured, because this bears on the court's assessment. A syarie lawyer or an officer at the religious affairs office can help you take protective steps. See domestic violence.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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