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My spouse has an addiction such as gambling or drugs. Where can we get help?

Addiction is a problem that needs specialised help, and it rarely gets better through reprimands or patience alone. For drug addiction, the National Anti-Drugs Agency (AADK) provides treatment and support services. For gambling problems and related debts, AKPK can help with financial matters. Encourage your spouse to get treatment without humiliating them, because shame often stops people from seeking help. Get support for yourself as well, because living with someone else's addiction is exhausting. If the situation becomes dangerous, put your and your children's safety first: call the police on 999, and Talian Kasih 15999 for support. Recovery may take time; be patient while you keep making the effort. See counselling.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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