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May a husband force his wife to have relations even when she is ill or unwilling?

No; forcing her with violence or while she is unwell contradicts the command to live together in kindness, and may even be a criminal offence.
The Qur'an describes husband and wife as garments for one another and calls for love and compassion. A wife who is ill or has a valid excuse commits no sin in refusing. In Malaysia, the Penal Code (s.375A) makes it an offence for a husband to hurt his wife, or to put her in fear through threats, in order to have intercourse with her. A wife who suffers violence can obtain a protection order and counselling support. See Counselling and Etiquette between husband and wife.

Sources

Surah an-Nisa' 4:19Surah ar-Rum 30:21Surah al-Baqarah 2:187Penal Code, s.375A
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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