My husband withholds money for the children's needs to pressure me into doing what he wants. What do I do?

Using the children's needs as a tool of pressure on you is abuse that also harms the children. Child maintenance is the child's right, which the father must fulfil, and not a reward for your compliance. If this situation endangers the children or you, call the police on 999, and Talian Kasih 15999 for support. Record the children's unmet needs along with the dates. The Department of Social Welfare (JKM) can assess the children's welfare, and the Syariah Court can set and enforce child maintenance. Make sure the children still get their basic needs while you seek help. Children should not be made victims. See domestic violence.